Whether you have been in a relationship for a long time, or for a short time, it is often difficult to make your partner understand that you want to make love. Either by shyness, by fear of the answer or by fear of frustrating your partner, or because it lacks romance… To make it more subtle but still obvious, we made you a list of small attentions to tease your half and make them understand that you want to make love.
(yes, it sounds a little bit like a wild animal when you say it like that, but we are animals, just remember)
Say it, to make your partner understand that you want to make love!
Nothing is more effective than words to warm up your partner. If the goal is to make them understand that you want to have sex, you might as well tell him. For the most direct way, you can try phrases (more or less trash) like “make love to me”, or “come on, let’s fuck?” but as far as romance is concerned… You lose a lot. For the shy, passionate lovers, you can try more subtle things, like whispering soft words in their ears, naughty words, like “I want you” or “undress me”. 🔥
Either way, get close to each other, and say cute, or naughty things to each other. It works… almost all the time 😉
Show it to him with gestures!
You often need to combine gestures with words, so making it clear that you want to have sex, is one thing, showing it to your other half is another. 🙄 Because unless you’re in bed together, and one thing leads to another, the conditions are rarely right for you to sneak off to make love! Get closer, touch each other innocently, a lock of hair your partner plays with, a caress on the cheek, a warm kiss in the hollow of the neck, shy hands to learn the contours of his body… All these little things will raise the heat and will most likely guide you to bed (or elsewhere for the more adventurous).
Mission accomplished: you have succeeded in making your partner understand that you want to make love!
A look to make your partner understand that you want to make love
Use your eyes. Get your message across through looks. Snuggle up together, look deep into each other’s eyes, you can always wink a little naughty. Either way, smile. Your smile, like your eyes, should be explicit. A sideways smile, coupled with a deep look will clearly indicate your intentions. 😏
Write it down with a quick note to change habits
To fan the flame and heat up your partner, to make your partner understand that you want to make love, you can give him a little note when you cross paths, slip it into the pocket of a jacket… But we strongly advise you to stimulate the imagination of your other half through texting! Send sweet nothings, naughty phrases maybe more daring, franker or why not Nudes! 🤭
⚠ Be careful though, if you do this, we advise you to do it only if you know your other half perfectly! ⚠
Try some naughty games, to make your partner understand that you want to make love…
Dare to play! This is definitely the most boorish advice, but playing with your other half will definitely lead to sex. 😏 Whether it’s through apps, like Game for Couples, or Truth or Dare, you can also create a naughty role play! Set up a date, create a scenario, and live out your new story.
If after all these little tips you still haven’t managed to make your partner understand that you want to have sex, take the lead and take your partner straight to bed 😉