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Does love know borders? Distance might seem like an insurmountable obstacle, but think again! A long distance relationship can work, and even thrive. Wondering how to love from afar, keep the spark alive, and build a solid future despite the miles?
Here are a few secrets from couples who defy distance and prove that true love has no limits. ❤️ (sky is the limit)
Distance. The very word makes many couples shudder. Yet, a long distance relationship can work, sometimes even better than relationships where you see each other every day! How is this possible? The answer lies in the strength of the emotional connection and the willingness to make it work.
It’s simple: when you can’t touch, you have to talk. And not just about the weather! Emotional intimacy means sharing your fears, your dreams, your joys, your doubts… It’s about knowing each other deeply. It’s what makes it possible to love each other whether you’re inches or miles apart.
“Emotional intimacy is an aspect of interpersonal relationships that varies in intensity depending on the relationship, and which varies depending on the moment, similar to physical intimacy.”
Source: Wikipedia
After a long, tough day at work, who do you want to confide in? If it’s your partner, even hundreds of miles away, that’s a great sign. 🫶
Having future plans is what gives the relationship meaning. Whether it’s a trip, moving in together, or a shared career goal, these plans are like beacons guiding your relationship through the storms. Knowing you’re on the same wavelength strengthens your connection and gives you hope. 💛
“Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.” Saint-Exupéry
Without trust, no relationship can last, and in a long distance situation, you’re going to need A LOT of it. Jealousy and doubt can quickly poison the atmosphere. Trust your partner, and be worthy of their trust. It’s the foundation.
If a friend makes a remark about your partner, don’t let gossip get to you. Talk about it openly with your partner. If you feel doubt creeping in, express it, even if it means asking for a “fact-check” with their agreement. Staying silent will eat you up, and sometimes the truth is much simpler and sweeter, so don’t miss the opportunity to ask for it. 💬
So, how do these couples who seem to defy the laws of romantic gravity do it? Here are their secrets:
Ditch the daily “Hi” ; “How are you?” routine. Share your emotions, your thoughts, your experiences. Describe your feelings, positive or negative, become a poet or a chronicler of your heart! In return, be present and active in your listening, even through a screen. Listen actively, ask questions, show empathy. Loving from afar requires a conscious effort to communicate.
For example, instead of just saying “I had a good day,” recount a specific moment that made you smile, or a difficulty you faced.
Routine can really kill even the strongest relationships… It’s a fact. So, be imaginative! Send love letters, surprise packages, organize virtual movie nights, play online games (we have lots of great apps for that, by the way!). The important thing is to keep the flame alive and show your partner you’re thinking of them.
Why not have their favorite meal delivered, or send them a playlist of songs that remind you of shared memories? Everything is possible with today’s technology.
Need some ideas? Check out our blog! 😍
Just because you’re far away doesn’t mean you can’t spend quality time together. Schedule regular video calls where you dedicate yourselves entirely to each other. Avoid distractions, be attentive and present. Transform those virtual moments into real dates. Turn off notifications, put your phones aside, and look into each other’s eyes (even through a screen!). Many games are available for coop play, Netflix has a sharing feature for their movies or series. Suggest something – you might be surprised! ✨
Also Read : Long distance sex : out of sight, close to the *ss
A long distance relationship is also an opportunity to focus on yourself, develop your passions, and spend time with your friends. Don’t lose yourself in the relationship, keep your own identity. A fulfilled person is a more interesting and happier partner, with MUCH more to share! Take advantage of this time to sign up for that pottery class you’ve always wanted to take, or to organize a game night with your friends.
Then you’ll give your love a full debrief. (obviously) 😘
It’s cute, right? But let’s be honest, it’s a bit “we’ll see” and that’s rarely enough when you’re separated by distance.
Having dreams is great, but turning them into reality is even better! Don’t just say “someday we’ll live together.” Start building that “someday” now! Plan your next reunion, set small goals (a trip per year? A weekend every two months?), concretely visualize how you imagine your life together. It will give you a boost when morale is low.
Specifically, that means actually booking those plane tickets in advance (no more “we’ll see if we have time”), creating a Pinterest board with all those decor ideas for your future apartment (to project yourself fully), or even starting to set aside some money each month for a project that is important to your heart ❤️
Distance can sometimes weigh on your connection. LovBirdz is there to help you stay connected and rekindle the flame! This interactive game for couples allows you to test your knowledge of each other in a fun and engaging way.
What are you waiting to test? Available on iOS & Android 💛
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