Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but they also offer a unique opportunity to explore new ways of connecting. One of the most exciting methods is sexting. 💬 But what exactly is sexting, and why does it excite us so much ?
What is sexting ?
Sexting is the act of sending sexual text messages to your partner to ignite desire and maintain intimacy, even from afar. It can include explicit descriptions, fantasies, suggestive photos, or simply sweet words that spark the imagination. Sexting is a playful and thrilling way to keep the flame alive in your relationship.
Why does it excite us ?
The excitement of sexting comes from several factors. First, it breaks the routine and introduces an element of surprise and mystery. Second, sexting stimulates the imagination and creates anticipation, making reunions even more passionate. Finally, it strengthens intimacy and communication between partners.
Ok or not ok ?
Before diving into the world of sexting, it’s essential to address the issue of consent. Each partner must feel comfortable and safe sharing intimate content.
Here are some points to keep in mind :
Open Communication: Discuss your boundaries and what excites or makes you uncomfortable. Ensure you are on the same page.
Respect Boundaries: If one of you is uncomfortable with certain content or games, it’s crucial to respect those limits without pressure.
Continuous Consent: Consent is not a one-time act. It must be renewed regularly, especially if you are exploring new territories in your relationship.
4 “Soft” sexting games
1-The sexy questions game
Send your partner a series of sexy questions to learn more about their fantasies. For example, “What is your most secret fantasy?” or “What is your favorite position?” This game is perfect for starting gently and exploring each other’s desires.
Challenge your partner to a sexy photo contest. Send a suggestive photo and ask them to do the same. This can be as simple as a picture of you in underwear or a more daring image, depending on your comfort level. 😌
3-The scenario game
Imagine an erotic scenario and describe it to your partner via text. For example, “Imagine we are alone in a wooden cabin, it’s cold outside, but warm inside…” Let your imagination run wild and invite your partner to continue the story.
4-The memories game
Recall your favorite intimate moments together and describe them via text. For example, “I remember the first time we made love, it was so intense…” This game helps rekindle the flame and cherish precious memories.
4 Naughty sexting games
1-The erotic challenges game
Send your partner erotic challenges to complete and document via text. For example, “Send me a photo of you naked in the bathroom” or “Describe what you would do if I were there now.” (This one usually works very well.) 😏
2-Role-playing via text
Choose roles to play together and exchange sexts while embodying these characters. For example, “I am your teacher, and you are my favorite student…” This game allows you to break the routine and explore new dynamics.
Send explicit photos of yourself to your partner, ensuring you respect your limits and comfort. This game is for couples who feel comfortable with this level of intimacy and trust. ✌️ Will you be able to take it to the video level ?
4-Discuss your fantasies
Share your boldest fantasies, exchange lists of your fantasies, and discuss each one deeply:
For example, “I’ve always dreamed of making love on a deserted beach, feeling the sand on my skin and the water on my feet…”
“Oh really? Tell me more.”
“How long have you had this desire?”
“What excites you the most about this idea?”
“Ideally, how would you like it to happen exactly?”
