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Want to spice things up in your relationship ? đ¶ïž Sexual tension is super important for maintaining desire and excitement in a couple. Letâs explore together how to make it last or reinvent it in your daily life.
Sexual tension isnât something stressful or tense. Itâs more like a growing desire to get closer, to touch each other. Imagine a glass slowly filling with desire, almost to the point of overflowing. đŠ This tension can be maintained, stimulated, or even played with to make it more intense. â€ïžâđ„
Weâll give you some tips and advice to keep that little flame alive in your relationship. đ
For it to work, you need a bit of mystery.
Play a little, as if youâve just met, for example. A flirty look, an âaccidentalâ brush, some suggestive music â these can awaken things or stimulate sexual imagination. đ
You donât need words to show your desire. Sensual gestures and intention can sometimes say a lot.
All of this sends little signals that can potentially excite your partner, if theyâre receptive, without them even really realizing it.
Weâre giving tips here to maintain the flame and desire in a couple. This works when thereâs a relationship of trust where each person knows how to listen to the otherâs desire. When you donât know someone well, you can misunderstand body signals and intentions. What we think is interest might be something else entirely. So, before going further, always check that the other person agrees. Ask the question clearly and listen carefully to the answer, both the words and the body language. If you have any doubt, ask again. Consent must be clear and freely given. And remember, you have the right to change your mind at any time.
If thereâs one thing that makes our feelings boil, for better or worse, itâs waiting. Waiting is super exciting when desire is established !
The longer you wait, the more the gauge will fill up and the better it will be. No need to rush, break down your desire into snapshots and enjoy each moment.
Itâs like a modern, naughty version of Truth or Dare. The idea is to play when youâre together in the same room. The app offers over 1000 challenges, divided into four levels. It ranges from very mild to very hot. You start gently with nice questions, and if you want, you can turn up the heat with bolder challenges. If youâre out of ideas to spice up your evening or if you like being guided, the app is perfect.
Before talking about the couple, letâs talk about you. If youâre not comfortable with yourself, it will be difficult to create and maintain desire in your relationship. Itâs like trying to fill a leaking cup: it wonât work well. Taking care of yourself is the foundation for being able to open up to the other and share beautiful intimate moments.
A relationship where you feel good is the basis for desiring each other and keeping the flame alive. â€ïžâđ„
Being present in the moment is super important. Smartphone in airplane mode and TV off :
Being aware of the events unfolding before us, giving them real attention will amplify your emotions and desires by creating a dedicated inner space. A little bubble just for your pleasure. Cutting yourself off from the rest of the world, physically and mentally, allows you not to disturb your sexual expressions.
Donât hesitate to try lots of things to see what works for you. Every couple is different, the important thing is to trust yourselves and listen to each other. With a little practice and a lot of kindness, youâll keep that little spark that makes it magical between you. đȘ
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